In recent months, I can not for the life of me keep my eyes off older married men *sigh*. If anybody knows me then they know I have a soft spot for the youngins (no pun intended) lol. Times are a'changing. I can't pinpoint the particular day or special event when the bells started going off in my head but them bitches been ringin ever since!
Sidenote: I think Stunna knows about this blog and if what I'm saying is true honneyyyyy I'm busted!
It's bad enough that I'm looking salivating ova older folk but married??? No, not me! Yes.Me. I be so shamed cuz once I see the shining gold band my mind gets to wondering and imagining all types of crazy shit! No lie.
I saw this older brother (late 40's maybe) in a suit. My first thought? Sexiness personified. My second thought? I wonder what his wife looks like. Third thought? I'd like summa that! *shamed* Now see, I ain't the type to be spreading it all around that's sooo like middle '90s *lol*. And I seriously am not interested in having relations with anybody other than Stunna BUT that does not stop my mind from going there every chance it gets. Is this what happens when you're almost 35? If so, I ain't ready!
I mean am I really the only one with these impure thoughts? Y'all keep me prayed up before I go out here and act a dayum fool.
Durty
23 comments:
So, you was checkin' me out on Metro, was you? Back up off a spoken-for (older) brutha. You know it's hard out here for a (anti-) pimp.
If all you're doing is thinking about it (because you ain't the one to give it up all willy nilly and you're not interested in anybody besides Stunna), then OK. BUT deep down you know what you're capable of and you know what your true feelings are. YOU KNOW what will happen if you don't get a grip on this, so find your grip, chica! And remember: what goes around comes around.
LMBAO@NUPE You know what!!! I don't take the green line so nah that wasn't you! My bad bruh!
@MRS See I knew you'd be the voice of reason *sigh* I ain't gonna act on it butterummm keep me in ya prayers cuz the devil stays busy.
Ding. Ding. Ding. Ding. Ding. Alex, "What is 'you are not alone'?"
That is correct, Pro, for $500 dollars and a daily double.
Sigh. I'm closer to 34, making me a year from 35, and it's a demon that I keep on a leash. However, the devil busy and he ain't got nothing "new" up his sleeve therefore he try and slay me every now and again with the lust of the eye/flesh. And 'eyes' married....
[On my way to the altar]
Think, imagine, fantasize your little heart out!
It's fun!
jali sanging: "Sweet dreams are made of this...who am I to disagree..."
this is hilarious.. for me it is a man in a suit.. even big boys can get a wink... I tell you it makes me weak.
BF :-)
It's just the older men, married or whatever I don't care. Them wearing a suit and having that umm... I guess it's dignified smelling cologne--you know the one that only smells right on a clean cut man in his mid 40's. Makes me weak every time.
@PRO LOL! Lawd chile move ova on the altar cuz we need room!
@Jali See you tryna start TROUBLE! TROUBLE!
@BF I'm telling you. I think my "style" done changed. I'm lookin at the olda ones like SAY WHAT? OH FOR REAL? OK! lol!
@Tasha Nothing like a "dignified" cologne wearing MAN! Do you hear me? *shew*
Girl you are too funny!!
The devil is a lie!!! LOL. I have to say that I agree with babybear. It's something that you desire, to be married. God knows the desires of your heart. Don't allow the devil to take you of course. Be strong. :-)
Perhaps it is not the man you are attracted to (although he may be nice looking) but the situation. Sometimes we are attracted to things that we want. Cause let's face it, random fornication with cats is just dumb right. So we know that ain't the issue. Him and his wife may represent something you wish for yourself but not quit have yet.
@Diva Shoot this aint funny! *shew* Times is hard!
@FF Me and the devil gonna go to body blows if he don't get up off me!!!
@BB Yep I agree. Lil Moc said the same thing to me! Ugh! And yes, sleepin wif random folk make ZERO sense.
Gurl I am feeling you! I am in my mid *cough* 30s and I cannot keep my eyes off of older established men. I wont even get into the older latin candy that I have seen more and more in DC. The devil is always busy! Meet you at the alter, I need prayer too!
-LB
For me it's men with babies and toddlers...been turned on by that since i was in my late teens, early twenties. LOL! i think we all got some kinda fantasy in our heads, u just crazy enough to blog about it! Ha Haaaaaa!
PS - men are aware of the attraction of commitment. When my parents divorced - my father continued to wear his ring for a bit - said he got more attention with it on;-)...
I'm scared of older men. They like my uncles that threaten to whup me or sumthin. lol
don't laugh
I had a crush on Bill Cosby for a minute in my early 20s
Back to add. I think older men give us a sense of stability/security at this juncture of our lives. Security is of most importance to many women. Older is also distiguished. Older is seasoned like a pot of greens that have sat overnight.
But remember when older made you think about getting "worms" if they touched you? *Sigh* Why can't life be sliced bread simple anymore?
For the record, I think Samuel Jackson and Lawrence Fishborne are rather secksey. God what would my father think? Maybe that is my problem; he wasn't EVER in my life.
*Double Dog Sigh* (Oh, Wish you luck on sentencing, Michael Vick.)
@ANON-LB Latin? Now see you pushing it! LOL!
@CAP I'm so mad at yo daddy! Dang!
@WISE Da hell?
@GC HaHa! I'm sure you are NOT alone!
@PRO Not a pot of greens that sat out overnight! LOL! You so country! EVERYTIME I see Lawrence Fishborne in Boyz in the Hood when he cutting his sons hair in the kitchen makes me tingle! Tingle I say! *shew*
@DIVA It's all truth!
Married men have that look of something. Confidence? Security? Oh wait....it's that look of a wife making sure their shyt is together when they walk out the door every morning..LOL
Seriously, married men lack the one thing single men (with no prospects) have....that scent of desperation. No wonder they turn heads.
LMAO...did Pro say greens? Country azz....LOL
LMAO @ this teeheheheeeee
did you say green line?? you live in da urea??? *hmmmm*
LMAO @ sixty.. not the scent of desperation!
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